As a working class/poor person who grew up in an abusive alcoholic house and turned into a queer I just want you to know I feel your pain and what you are talking about to the depths of my soul. So many people that look good (genetics)or have money (born into it)don’t give a shit about others. it would never occur to them to help anybody and they don’t hide their disdain for us peons. I don’t know why, I don’t understand the psychology of it or anything but it’s people like us working class folks that end up being more helpful or giving, go figure People who never suffer never learn. I like to think it all comes out in the wash karma wise but who knows